Sex-positive feminism is also called pro-sex feminism, sex-radical feminism or sexually liberal feminism. The sex-positive feminist movement was started in the early 1980’s and was set up in response to anti-pornography feminist. Advocates of the sex- positive movement are Ellen Willis, Susie Bright, Patrick Califia and Gail Rubin.Catharine Mackinnon, Andrea Dworkin, Robin Morgan and Dorchen Leidholdt were prominent anti-pornography feminists. They believe that pornography is an example of oppression of women, which is opposite to what the sex-positive feminist believe.Thus creating the beginning of the “Feminist Sex Wars” in the early 1980’s.Gayle Rubin an acclaimed sex-positive feminist purports: “There have been two strains of feminist thought on the subject. One tendency has criticized the restrictions on women’s sexual behaviour and denounced the high costs imposed on women for being sexually active.”This tradition of feminist sexual thought has called for liberation that would work for women as well as for men. The second tendency has considered sexual liberalization to be inherently a mere extension of male privilege. This tradition resonates with conservative, anti-sexual discourse.”However some sex-positive feminists are not against other feminists but are attacking the patriarchal control of women’s sexuality.They also purport: ” that in the area of sexuality, government blatantly discriminate against women.”The ideology behind sex-positive feminism is sexual freedom of women is essential. They will fight any legislation or social efforts to control individual’s sexual activity. Sex-positive feminist will fight the government or other feminist who they see as trying to control people’s sexuality.They believe that as long as it between two consenting adults it is no-one business what you do in your sex life.Sex-positive feminist are not only for women they support sexual minority groups with the idea of building a united front with groups are who are targeted by sex-negativity.The male sex is not viewed as the enemy with the sex-positive feminist, instead they welcomed into the group as they acknowledge all of human sexuality.They believe that pornography should not be over regulated, as it is just another way patriarchal limiting sexual expression.Some anti-censorship activists, feminist scholars, sex radicals, producers of pornography and erotica are brought together under the umbrella sex-positive feminist ideology.
According to The Society for the Advancement of Sexual Health, an estimated three to five percent of the U.S. population suffers from sexual compulsion disorders or more simply put, sex addiction. However, because of the rather secretive and personal nature of the addiction, these numbers are considered very conservative. The estimate is based only on the number of people who are actually seeking treatment for their addiction.Another indication of sex addiction that is considered fairly reliable or at least telling, is the amount of pornography viewed on the Internet. This is because pornography addiction is one of the most common forms of sex addiction. According to tracking data released by Nielsen Online in 2010, 25 percent more people with Internet access at work viewed pornography during their office hours over the data taken in 2007. This is only one snapshot of all of the activity online that is related and fueled by sexual addiction. However, it indicates a growing problem.Another, perhaps alarming, statistic about the realities of pornography addiction comes from Alexa research in 2010 which shows that two porn websites rank in the top 50 for worldwide traffic. Nearly all of the top 50 websites are social networking sites and CNN.com ranked below these at 57th. When looking at these facts, it is obvious that porn addiction and sex addiction in general are a real and growing problem. While many people don’t understand the implications of a sexual addiction, it should be thought of as a drug or alcohol addiction.Behaviors of a Sex Addict
Sex addiction can take on many forms of sexual thoughts and activities. Some of the most common include masturbation, viewing of pornography, sexual activities with multiple anonymous partners, experiencing some sort of sexual aversion, affairs, cyber/phone sex, unsafe sexual activity, attending strip clubs, frequenting adult stores and engaging in prostitution. While many people may engage in some of these activities as a healthy part of their sex lives, the sex addict will be compelled to repeatedly engage in them, even when they desire to stop.Symptoms of Sexual Addiction
The symptoms of sexual addiction have been adapted by clinicians and researchers from the criteria used for chemical dependency because of the similarities. The criteria are as follows:* Repeatedly engaging in more sex with more partners than desired* Preoccupation with sex combined with a desire to cut back or stop.* Thoughts of sex to the point that it affects other activities. Continually engaging in sexual acts to the point of excess despite the desire to stop.* Spending large amounts of time engaging in sexual thoughts or acts. (Spending hours visiting pornographic websites is just one example.)* Neglecting obligations like family, work or school to pursue sexually compulsive activities.* Engaging in sexual activities despite negative consequences such as health risks or broken relationships.* Escalating in scope or frequency of sexual activities in order to achieve the desired effect.* Feeling angry, irritated or frustrated when unable to participate in desired sexual activities.Overall, sex addiction is a very troubling disease for both the addict and those who are close to them. With the continued growth of the Internet and mobile technology, it is a safe bet that more and more people will become involved in addictive sexual behaviors. Therefore, it is important for professionals who work with people to be able to understand some of the facts about sexual addiction in order to identify it and get addicts the help that they need.
Well, that’s a good question and continues to be a dilemma for most parents. As a parent you want to help your adult child, but you want your child to become independent of you in most cases! You want your adult child to spread their wings and find their own space! But, sometimes that may be more difficult in our present day due to the high cost of housing. It may take your adult child more time to save up for their first apartment or home. Especially if they just finished college and may have student loans that they will need to pay back. So, you really want to help your adult child by letting them live with you, but, you want them not to become dependent upon you if you help them. Here are some tips and information you may want to consider when thinking about letting your adult child live with you:1) Consider charging your adult child rent while they are staying with you once they have secured a job. This will teach your adult child responsibility and how to manage their personal finances. They’ll need this experience in the future when they have their own apartment or home.2) If you don’t want to charge your adult child rent or don’t believe their financially able to pay rent, consider having them pay part or all of a utility bill which would include the electric, gas or cable bill.3) If your adult child wants to use your telephone, make sure they have their own telephone line or cell phone that they are responsible for paying the bill. This will eliminate future headaches for you later, if your phone bill increases to an astronomical amount, due to your adult child living in your home.4) Consider having your adult child purchase their own food or contribute to the purchase. You may find that your food bill may increase substantially when your adult child moves in. So, in order to alleviate problems with the potential added cost, have your adult child contribute to the cost or get their own food. Remember you’re trying to teach them responsibility and how to manage their own personal finances. So this is a way to do this!5) Set ground rules for your adult child prior to them moving into your home. Remember, the bottom line is, this is your home and you want to be comfortable while you adult child is living with you. Make sure you make clear whether or not your adult child can have a boyfriend or girlfriend stay overnight in your home, responsibility for certain household chores and any additional ground rules you will want to discuss with your adult child. This will hopefully alleviate problems in the future!6) You may want to consider setting a time frame for how long your adult child can live with you. That is if you want them to eventually get out on their own and become self sufficient. By doing this, your adult child will continue to learn responsibility and full independence by getting a place of their own!It’s okay to help your adult child by letting them live with you. However, you don’t want them to be dependent on you forever! You want them to get themselves financially secure to become self sufficient and an independent adult, being able to take care of themselves in their own place! After all, you’ve raised them to carry their own torch so they can be prepared when you’re no longer able to help them!